Imagine the following scenario: John takes Jane on a date. The night is loaded with tons of excellent conversation and some fun activity, but they never touch. John feels that he must be a gentleman and believes that gentlemen keep their hands off.

What a night Jane thought. I hope John will kiss me. John walks Jane to her front door, looks deeply into her eyes, says good night, and then walks away. Jane thinks to herself too bad. John forgot to do the most important thing that most men forget to do; gradually touching a women throughout the night.

On his way home, John is cursing at himself and thinking what all me think who have been in his situation, “I should have kissed her. ”

What John does not know is that Jane would like to be touched by him. It shows that he is interested in her.

Then why was John so hesitant to kiss Jane? The answer to that is gradual touching. A kiss can not come before a hug, and a hug can not come before a light tap. Physical contact must be increased slowly, ultimately ending at the kiss not starting. Lets take a look at how to make a good night kiss feel natural and smooth, and in the process avoid John’s mistakes.

Kino, otherwise known as touching, is the gradual physical contact between people. Proper kino, can make the difference between getting a kiss at the end of the night, or end up like John in the friend zone.

One thing that you need to understand, women want to feel that any new intimate relationship or casual encounter that they have is intuitively the right thing.

What most men forget is that when women look for possible personal encounters with men, they must feel comfortable. Gradual touching can lead to a women becoming familiar with your touch and not feel as though your touch is awkward.

Listed below is the outline for the “Kino Ladder.”

1. Lightly touch her arm. A quick touch between the elbow and shoulder should be your first contact with a women. Remember, kino escalation starts slowly and then builds as her comfort builds.

2. Connect your kino with positive moments. If a woman laughs at your joke or you laugh at her joke, and it is a happy moment during your encounter then playfully touch her shoulder or hand. Now your touch is associated with good feelings!

3. Escalate in a natural progression. Do not attempt a kiss before a hand touch, unless you are receiving an absolute major “Indicator of Interest” (IOI) that you cannot ignore!

Stylelife teaches one of the best ways to break the touch barrier. This is known as:”The Kino Ladder.”

A) Take a moment to touch her hand or shoulder.

B) Take a moment to read her palm or give her a hand massage. Holding her hand builds comfort and make the moment seem genuine.

C) After a few moments, the palm reading or hand massage that you are doing will begin to make her feel comfortable. At that moment, while still holding her hand, ask her if you can show her something special in private.

D) Getting the girl alone is just beginning. A women that goes off with a man, usually means that shes trusts him subtly. When your alone with the girl take the opportunity to build greater kino.

E) Escalate gradually by touching her lightly on the shoulder, hand, or her lower back

When you have built up enough kino and your alone with a women, there will be a moment of opportunity that will present itself. Its your job to recognize this moment, and take advantage of it. Use this kino ladder example to break you out of the comfort zone and make women respond positively to your every touch.

Neil Strauss and his Stylelife coaches have the tools to make you a better pick up artist by teaching you to win overthe girl with the power of touch!!!